Disclaimer : It’s not written by me, I just made few changes according to my Opinion. Found it very interesting, that’s why I included it here.
The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship. These are just three little BUT VERY POWERFUL words!!!
I Love You
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your Sister, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words "I love you". If one loves you then he also wants to be loved in return. Nobody knows what they have until they lose it so If you have this feeling for someone in nay form then do tell him today, don't wait for a specific time, we never know if something could go wrong with that person, and you might not get chance to say this to him. Also don't assume with everyone that your feelings are well understood by him without saying by yourself. You don't know whether he is waiting to listen it from you.**
**Don't say it if you don't mean it by heart as the impact will be same in negative side if he/she find out/feel that there isn't true feeling behind this and it was only just few artificial cheesy words.
I'll Be There
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take you to hospital from hostel, or when you are in need of help, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase " I'll be there/ I'm coming" Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we're truly present for other people, important things happen to them & us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.
I Miss You
Perhaps more marriages could be saved if couples simply & sincerely say to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired & loved. Consider how happy you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."
I Respect You / I Trust You
Respect and trust is another way of showing love. Its conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds & become close friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.
Please Forgive Me
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday. and if you are the one then don't force other to say this.
I Thank You
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.
Count On Me
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me". You won't need to ask for his help coz he will there for you without asking whenever he feels that you need someone.
Let Me Help
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help. Don't take it as they you are giving them pain, Give them chance to show their affection in this form.
I Understand You
People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing relationship. This applies to any relationship.
I Love You
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your Sister, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words "I love you". If one loves you then he also wants to be loved in return. Nobody knows what they have until they lose it so If you have this feeling for someone in nay form then do tell him today, don't wait for a specific time, we never know if something could go wrong with that person, and you might not get chance to say this to him. Also don't assume with everyone that your feelings are well understood by him without saying by yourself. You don't know whether he is waiting to listen it from you.**
**Don't say it if you don't mean it by heart as the impact will be same in negative side if he/she find out/feel that there isn't true feeling behind this and it was only just few artificial cheesy words.
I'll Be There
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take you to hospital from hostel, or when you are in need of help, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase " I'll be there/ I'm coming" Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we're truly present for other people, important things happen to them & us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.
I Miss You
Perhaps more marriages could be saved if couples simply & sincerely say to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired & loved. Consider how happy you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."
I Respect You / I Trust You
Respect and trust is another way of showing love. Its conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds & become close friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.
Please Forgive Me
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday. and if you are the one then don't force other to say this.
I Thank You
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.
Count On Me
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me". You won't need to ask for his help coz he will there for you without asking whenever he feels that you need someone.
Let Me Help
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help. Don't take it as they you are giving them pain, Give them chance to show their affection in this form.
I Understand You
People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing relationship. This applies to any relationship.
1 comment:
Very well said, It seems that you have a kind heart.
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